Within the process of a building project, there are many critical moments. Formwork for the foundation must be accurate to ensure the rest of the design can be executed as designed. Framing can be complicated but must accommodate all the intricate connection details and finishes. The most critical moments, I believe, are in the first few meetings and subsequent design meetings, however. When clients discuss their needs and wishes, and even beyond, during casual exchanges, you can pick up worlds of information on who they are and what will make them most happy. Listening intently during meetings makes a successful design and, ultimately, a successful project. Listening to understand is critical.

Lately, current events have led me to some serious, contemplative sessions. I’ve been trying to consider what changes I could make to be a better citizen for all. At first, I looked for outward expressions and opportunities, such as donating time and money, protesting, and writing to local politicians. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that listening would do more than anything else. Genuinely listening to learn and understand better seems universally vital to creating a better world. That understanding can make the harmony we are all seeking. Therefore, borrowing from my skills during client meetings, I will continue to listen and look forward to learning how to be an ally and know when a partner is needed.